You know, I was so blind to my own needs that it is only in the last two years I have realised how much moving can stress me out. In my life I’ve lived in three continents. Before I came to Cardiff 3 years ago, I had live in 6 cities in Britian over 10 years and changed residence 11 times. All of this combined with the other life problems I was encountering (eg, like conflicts with being an Asian in Britian, generations/family stuff which was so traumatic and which was more my personal experience rather than the experience of every Asian person necessarily). Now I am more aware of what stresses me out and more aware that I do have choices. The point is this lack of awareness of what is stressful for me as an individual.